This ad appeared in a newspaper employment classifieds. It is a perfect reminder of how easy it is to see what’s wrong with anything, anywhere we look. These times are difficult. The economy is making us face a need to be self-sufficient. Employers face these same challenges and can easily become discouraged when seeking employees who are willing to meet the goals of the business, only to spend time and energy filtering through the ‘perpetual pessimists’ who expect something for nothing. That’s my perception of what this ad means. What, exactly, does pessismist mean? According to Merriam/Webster:
1: an inclination to emphasize adverse aspects, conditions, and possibilities or to expect the worst possible outcome
JAMES 3:16 TEV Where there is jealousy and selfishness, there is also disorder and every kind of evil. When we look around, where is there NOT jealousy and selfishness? That is what the pessimist tunes into. The trick is to turn it around: “Making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil” (Ephesians 5:16).
That’s why it is important to make an extra effort to seek the good. Dont’ give up.
“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”
I would never dream of going to a potential employer, filling out an application, making an interview appointment, arriving at the appointment (already put forth effort), only to loudly speak through my attitude in some way that I’m thinking “they won’t hire me, anyway” or that I’m too good for the job, or that I’m worth more than they offer. If that’s what I’m thinking, it will show in my demeanor.
You can choose to be a pessimist or just refuse to be negative. That’s what the quote in this blog title by George Bernard Shaw means to me. For inspiration and advice so that the difficult times we face don’t become overwhelming, I recommend Gretchen Rubin’s book “Happiness Project” and you can follow her on Twitter or Facebook. Also, author Larry Winget (he calls himself the “Pitbull of Personal Development”). You can find these and many, many good books at BetterWorldBooks. Look for encouragement, and you can find it!!